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04 April 2007
Dos and Don'ts..
..when it comes to pursuing a girl:
Dos
- respect a girl's privacy, even she's at a public place..
- ask the girl when is the best time to call or meet..
- understand if the girl avoid your calls or don't reply your sms that she's simply not interested to pursue the relationship (ouch!).. if she's really interested, she will ask you back whenever she missed your call or sms..
Don'ts
- try to strike a conversation when you see her doing some personal shopping (read:toiletteries shopping, underwear shopping, etc.).. she appreciates that she's left alone during those times..
- expect a girl to swoon at your feet just because you just told her "i admire you" or "i like your personality" or anything to that effect.. and how come you can like a person's personality when you just met that person for five minutes?
- call or address the girl as 'baby', 'darling' or anything like that. especially when she doesn't even know your last name yet! you are slowly pushing her away..
-come or visit the girl unannounced and expect her to entertain you. you'll never know if it's her bad hair day or what. besides, a real lady wouldn't entertain impromptu plans. she will always have her days planned wayyy ahead.
i'll add more whenever i think of anything..
Dos
- respect a girl's privacy, even she's at a public place..
- ask the girl when is the best time to call or meet..
- understand if the girl avoid your calls or don't reply your sms that she's simply not interested to pursue the relationship (ouch!).. if she's really interested, she will ask you back whenever she missed your call or sms..
Don'ts
- try to strike a conversation when you see her doing some personal shopping (read:toiletteries shopping, underwear shopping, etc.).. she appreciates that she's left alone during those times..
- expect a girl to swoon at your feet just because you just told her "i admire you" or "i like your personality" or anything to that effect.. and how come you can like a person's personality when you just met that person for five minutes?
- call or address the girl as 'baby', 'darling' or anything like that. especially when she doesn't even know your last name yet! you are slowly pushing her away..
-come or visit the girl unannounced and expect her to entertain you. you'll never know if it's her bad hair day or what. besides, a real lady wouldn't entertain impromptu plans. she will always have her days planned wayyy ahead.
i'll add more whenever i think of anything..
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posted by Pip at 17:13
6 Comments:
DOs and DON'Ts :: Based on Experience
hehe baru la betoi!
har har..
mane de... :|
owh. experience?? ermm... patutlah. :)
i just wondering if men really recieve the same signal as women intend to send. you know men, they hardly grew up (count me in for that). i guess item #3 would sound like this to women:
" understand if the girl avoid your calls or don't reply your sms that she's simply not interested to pursue the relationship (ouch!).. "
but to men, it will sound like this:
"understand if the girl avoid your calls or don't reply your sms that she's not ready yet and/or feeling shy. try again, harder tomorrow. don't give it up."
men can be very persistent being. don't you think so?
hmm.. maybe i should put "at all" so that it reads:
" understand if the girl avoid your calls or don't reply your sms at all that she's simply not interested to pursue the relationship (ouch!).. "
does that make sense? or does it still read:
"i'm not convinced. try harder next time."
??
i believe they will try harder before their degenerated mind actually realize the girl not interested.
or they will try until they get fade up.
or they will try to get you through your friends.
until you get fade up and give them a chance.
men can be persistent.
but some of them might lost their confidence and get hurt for a very long time.
i know some women love to tease or "jual mahal" and make men chasing after them felt miserable.
it's totally not good.don't tease men with low self-confidence for too long, they easily get hurt and felt defeated. we're just human, ain't cyborg. we get hurt, we cry but it's hard to express it cause people will called us sissy.
and another thing, men have degenerated mind so if you have something in mind, tell them straight to their face. hint won't do. and for facts, men hard to remember small details. we're just born with it.
:)
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